Abraham Lincoln: A compass, I learnt when I was surveying, it'll... it'll point you True North from where you're standing, but it's got no advice about the swamps and dessert and chasm that you'll encounter along the way. If in pursuit of your destination, you plunge ahead, heedl
At a acertain point, he senses that she's not really there. That's the moment when they decide to separate. And from then on, she wants to win him back. It's precisely at that moment that she falls in love with him.